Scrapbooking Revolutionary: A Creative Memories Consultant Shares Her Joys and Struggles with Scrapbooks

Scrapbooking Revolutionary: A Creative Memories Consultant Shares Her Joys and Struggles with Scrapbooks

by Kristin Sawyer

Kristen Sawyer is a writer, teacher and traveler currently based in Costa Rica. She writes articles on sustainability for the ecolodge Rancho Margot, and weaves stories and essays together for other publications predominantly based Ecuador, including Cuenca Highlife, Cuenca Expat, and La Revista Zero. Her interests include capturing the world in pictures and words, living in harmony with nature, and hiking or biking whenever possible.

My mother, Kathy Sawyer, has always been a scrapbook lover. There are scrapbooks of her wedding to my dad, of the time before us three kids were born, and infinitely more albums to document the life and times of our family. We have albums for holidays. There are family albums to document a year chronologically. And when each of my two siblings and I turned 18, we received an album that was a chronicle. Bursting with photos and quotes and paper cut-outs, my family has many ongoing documentations of our lives. But my mom didn’t always use to make such colorful creations. Her style has changed through the years. Creative Memories was the turning point in her evolution as an artist of albums.

“This is my first Creative Memories album. Look, I have the little things (pieces of paper). Look! This is the birthday of my mom, she died the next year.” She points to a page with the invitation for her mom’s 70th birthday. “See, this is what’s sad, that we are getting away from the beauty of just being able to open a book and have these pictures there. Like look at these!”

And so begins an interview as my mom takes me through her world and experience of scrapbooking. It’s a story that I’ve never heard before in entirety, one that weaves between initial awe, then internal conflict, and finally resolution. My mom has always been creative, someone who can draw and collage and make beauty out of what’s around her. Scrapbooking was her way of putting photos somewhere, in a book where we could enjoy them. She was exposed to Creative Memories about 20 years ago, when we were living in Chicago.

My first intro to Creative Memories was when I was invited to a half day Creative Memories party at a friend’s house. I always have loved taking photos. I worked for Eastman Kodak and my mom was a professional photographer. I live in a land of 10,000 photographs, and I always felt strongly that you have all these photos but the importance is in putting them in a place where people can see and enjoy them.

She explains that first step into the crafting world, a party of a dozen women, friends and friends of friends. The majority of these women were probably stay-at-home moms, but most had worked in professional fields before taking care of their kids. “I’m invited to this party,” she begins. “I’d heard of Creative Memories before and been intrigued, thinking ‘Somebody has finally figured out the importance of designing a system around helping people to get these photos in albums.’”

My mom explains how there was possibility in this structure: albums, the tools, the workshop component. She’s always been someone who enjoys a good project, but ultimately loves the product.

What I like more is the result, not the frilly stuff...you can get so caught up in having it look a certain way that you lose the energy of getting the job completed. Yet I love creative things, color, there’s a little kid side in all of us—a way to make each page a piece of art in and of itself...which strikes a chord with anyone with a creative streak.

Her friend told everyone to bring photos and they’d walk away with 1-2 pages designed for their album. My mom was intrigued by the concept, but also by the gadgets. “I had never heard of scissors that cut with waves or designs before…” It was a long day, 4 hours of cutting, talking, gluing, learning how to create art from the tools available, including the crafting scissors. And during that time, something interesting happened to my mom. She’s always been artistic, and she rarely compares herself to others, but when she was at the tables with other women making albums, she found herself getting comparative, almost competitive, as she looked around.

As it went on, you get caught up in comparison around the table. ‘That person’s page looks gorgeous and mine doesn’t even begin to look like that.’ I don’t usually go to that place but I was surprised how much I went to comparison mode. I did several pages and yet I was shocked how long people were taking on just 1 page.

This was the initial seed of her conflict. The business model of Creative Memories was fantastic. She talked about how she completed her pages at that first party, only to find out those pages fit exactly into a Creative Memories album. And by that point the participants were so invested, they didn’t hesitate to buy the album. Another thing that impressed her were the pens. It’s the small things in life.

One of the things I thought was brilliant is that they made a point of using their pens. They talked about the archival quality of pages and pens. Having worked for Kodak I knew it was a smart thing...so now, of course, you’re going to buy the pen set. I also love that they said, “Write a caption under the photos. Don’t be afraid. Because years from now your kids are going to love your handwriting.” That, to me, freed me up to do designs.

But along with the opening of this new freedom, there was a closing.

I experienced this half day introduction to what on many levels seemed like a brilliant approach to doing this and yet, what happened as a result of going to that one half day seminar was probably one of the most unexpected responses to anything I’ve ever done. I had been regularly putting pictures into photo albums, for years, and what happened was suddenly I felt like if I can’t do it perfectly without Creative Memories things—the paper, scissors, pens—and make them beautiful like these other people, what’s the point? I thought all these things subconsciously of course, but I literally stopped making albums for a year and a half, stopped dead in my tracks. And then, I got actually very upset at Creative Memories... I was an avid scrapbooking person and I felt like Creative Memories had taken the joy out of it for me because I felt like there’s such a better way to be doing this, but there’s no way I can keep up with an hour a page to make these beautiful pages...and yet, they were beautiful scrapbooks. There’s a piece of me that wanted those. So I made a decision that I was actually going to redo the model of Creative Memories.

With that intention of crafting a new model for Creative Memories in mind, for herself and for the business, she contacted a consultant in Kansas City, where we had just moved. At this point, she hadn’t made a single scrapbook in about three years. But photos were still flipping through her mind, and her plans had been brewing.

“I contacted a Creative Memories person in Kansas City, where we’d just moved. I met with her and shared with her my frustration of what I’d observed…I said it’s my own personal reaction and I want to overcome it because I do want to start creating albums again.” My mom was referring to her moment of frustration, in that room where so many people had been meticulously planning, cutting, crafting their pages, spending hours, the comparative pressure had risen. My mom wanted to focus on the functional purpose as well as the beauty. Scrapbooking should be about the product and the process; there had to be a way to find common ground between the art of crafting an album and doing it in a way that honored time constraints and individual creativity. After talking to the representative, my mom made a choice, an investment.

So, I made a decision that, weirdly, I would become a Creative Memories rep and buy the starter kit but what I would do is take a different approach. I wasn’t even sure I would sell it to other people. Maybe I would share the approach with other people. I decided to take the best of both worlds. Some of the pretty parts of Creative Memories, I’d put on to add a little color to the page. I used the pens and the scissors. But I also went back to my old method, which was much more of a collage style. I kept writing on the pages. I used pictures, especially goofy pictures, to create the design. I made quotes on paper when there was no space to write. Some of the pages have no Creative Memories pieces--no paper or stickers—but then with others I use a backdrop, some shapes, decorations. I created my own style sparked by Creative Memories pieces that, for me, was much more workable.

My mom had become her own artistic, scrapbooking laboratory. She was crafting the formula of time + energy + creativity that worked for her, and would amount to a product of beauty and long lasting enjoyment. And during this time, she was also talking to her friends who similarly loved to scrapbook and exchanging ideas that inspired the albums she was drawn to make.

“Another incredible outcome,” she says, “A creative expression, was the idea of themed photo albums. That wasn’t even something that they talked about a lot. When I did the Creative Memories workshop, they talked about chronological albums.... As a result of the workshop, I had conversations with my friends around the psychology of how to do an album. So I decided that what I would do for my three kids was to make an album for each of them, not chronological because there’s so much pressure to date pictures, but I would do an album for each of them with themed segments.

Even when she hadn’t been making albums for those couple of years, this idea had already been lodged in her head. She had been planning the albums she would one day make.

I wrote them (the theme ideas) out years before the albums: birth, my favorite things, milestones, important times, vacation, our family holidays, pictures of siblings, pictures with parents...but I also had taken all the photos to support these, which may be unusual. I take a lot more photos than 90 % people out there.

By the time that my mom was a Creative Memories Counsultant, she had saved up baggies of photos, organized by theme, to make the albums, and since she finally had the supplies—the books, page covers, pieces of paper, stickers, scissors—she was ready to craft.

In addition to my 3 albums that I completed for my kids on their 18th birthdays, which are seriously some of my favorite things, was that I had the experience of making them. While doing the albums, it was a chance to celebrate each of you `{`three kids`}` growing up—it was as much fun for me, if not more, than it was for you. I remember someone saying “Wow, you’ve spent so much time on these…” I told her it was a joy for me, that I had loved every minute of replaying those memories.”

The rest is history, stored on bookshelves in our back room. These albums are still an interactive part of our family. Though we don’t always sit around and look at them, they are there, ever-present, waiting to be opened and reveal lost memories. This act of taking time to appreciate photos is what my mom believes is missing from much of the digital instantaneity nowadays.

Now, everybody has these photos but nobody is doing anything with them. They’re buried deep in the bowels of the phone, in the world of internet and iCloud, the ether, and nobody ever sees them all.... We have to find a new system for getting these photos out to the people who care about them, who care about us.... We’ve gotten out of the habit of enjoying photos together.
Kathy and Kristen Sawyer on the coast of Ecuador, 2016
Kathy and Kristen Sawyer on the coast of Ecuador, 2016

My mom’s sentiment is one felt by many. While we can share Google albums or Facebook albums or photos on Instagram, there is a tangible difference between clicking through photos rapidly online or going through them, in-person, as you get to hear the stories and experiences. Photos, and the albums that hold them, are more than just things.

“They often say if you were to have a fire in your house, what is the first thing you would take? For years I actually kept all the albums in the closet by the front door because I thought one of the first things I would take, other than the people, of course, would be the albums.”

I was happy to hear that. As we wrapped up the words of creative expression, I asked my mom if there was any advice she had for people just getting into the scrapbooking world. After she had achieved her own balance of beautiful pages, collaged photos, and Creative Memories tools, my mom had become a master at the equilibrium. For people just starting out, she says,

If you decide early on that you’re going to make an album, even if it’s just someday, then you can organize the photos in baggies according to themes. And when it comes time to actually make it, already a piece of the work has been done, which is really cool. Also, the beauty of themed albums is that if you do a chronological book it can be too much. Just doing one themed book is much more manageable and enjoyable. With scrapbooks, it’s kind of like less is more, but something is better than nothing, and we’ve gone to nothing.

In this digitalized world, there are fewer and fewer people who take the time, the energy, to turn memories into photos, to turn photos into an album that will last for a lifetime. But it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. The album doesn’t have to be perfect. It’s better to have something than nothing. In a world where there are so many photos, where each person has tens of thousands, putting them into an album where people can share it together is one of the best ways to honor the experiences and the memories.

5 Comments
  • Robin Burdette
    Posted at 15:16h, 22 February Reply

    I just spent 9 glorious days working on my scrapbook albums with a couple friends … I love working with my pictures and putting them in scrapbooks and journal enough that I don’t even need to be there for someone to know what was going on in the pictures! I love Creative Memories … my daughter is a consultant! B

  • Charlene Caron
    Posted at 21:14h, 22 February Reply

    I LOVE scrapbooking! I have been scrapping for about 20 years. I had seven children and have a book for each of them. Now I have six Grandchilden and am trying to work on their books.. I have made many scrapbook for gifts. They are priceless. So many memories. I have a room FULL of pictures! Sometimes I am overwhelmed, just trying to sort the pictures to get them in order.
    I will always LOVE working on my albums. I attend all day scrap events and try to get together with dear friends as often as possible to work on our albums. I am glad Creative Memories is back in business and will be working on my scrapbooks for the rest of my life. I LOVE SCRAPBOOKING!

  • Olivia Tooley
    Posted at 17:47h, 25 February Reply

    After heartbreaking events, a move which left my craft items boxed up for several years , followed by some very stressful situations and more heartbreaking events, I finally got back in the scrapbooking game. My craft room is finally set up, allowing me to pop in and work on a project, or projects, when I find a pocket of time to do so. Ten minutes here, an hour there, whatever time I have, I’m in there, The first biggie, was finishing up my son’s scrapbook, which I started 12 years ago, when he was a senior in high school. He turned 30 last month and this was my gift to him, to finally finish his album, It has been just a bit over a week since I flew to go see him and presented him not only wth the album I started all those years ago, but a second one as well. He was delighted to get them. He said, “I can buy myself whatever I want, but I could not do this for myself,” He thanked me for them several times. Every minute spent creating his albums was worth seeing his smile, as well as walking down memory lane myself. Picture truly are worth a thousand words.

  • Sandy Wittstock
    Posted at 18:04h, 16 February Reply

    Help! I need to get back into the thing I love best!!! SCRAPBOOKING!!!!! I moved to Florida 4 yrs. ago, and I need it back in my life. I can’t find a Creative Memories rep down here!!

  • Janet
    Posted at 22:09h, 27 October Reply

    I recently got back into scrapbooking after I retired. I had stopped about 12 years ago due to all sorts of life events that got in the way, plus I kind of burned out on it. I began my Creative Memories scrapbooking journey back in 1998 after my sister and niece did an album for me of my trip to China to adopt my daughter and I just had to do the journaling. And they wisely gave me some supplies (niece was a consultant). I adored the album but ignored the supplies for awhile. Then my neighbor across the street invited me to a “crop”. That was it…….I was hooked!!! I am SO glad years back, I did not get rid of all my tons of supplies. They were tucked away in various parts of the house, but I found all of them. It has enabled me to take off running and I find I can fill in my depleted or worn out old Creative Memories supplies by going to eBay. Undoubtedly, many ex-consultants or families who inherited their Mom’s supplies are very happy to make those sales. So I do the classic, vintage Creative Memories style again and I still have all my many guidebooks to give me hints again. Anyway, I am loving being back to it again.

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